What is the first step when you want a divorce?

Answer

The first steps in the divorce process involve having open and honest discussions with your spouse before initiating divorce proceedings. These conversations should cover various aspects such as property division, child arrangements, financial matters, and the well-being of any children involved and whether you should apply for the divorce together or whether one person should petition. 

Having realistic expectations about the divorce process is vital. While legal support can streamline proceedings, it's essential to understand that divorce can be time-consuming and emotionally challenging, even in amicable situations. In the UK, divorces typically take at least six to seven months, even without complications. Familiarising yourself with the legal steps involved and consulting with a divorce solicitor can help you navigate the process.

Understanding the potential costs associated with divorce is another crucial aspect. Expenses can vary depending on factors like the complexity of your situation and whether you and your spouse are in agreement. Costs may include application and court fees, as well as legal fees from your divorce lawyer.